Did you know that as a business owner you’re 15% more likely to have a divorce?
Think about it, all those people you admire: Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Miranda Kerr, Dean Graziosi, Arianna Huffington, what is it they have in common outside of tremendous success in the boardroom?
Divorce.
In fact, if you dig deep enough you’ll find that the biggest challenge for entrepreneurs has nothing to do with what's going on in the workplace at all...
It's simply keeping their relationships together.
So why is it that so often the people we think we’re doing it all for end up being the people we lose along the way?
Let's be honest I could write all day about why but here's a few...
- The pressures that come with the financial rollercoaster of business.
- Neglect. Because YOU, the business owner, are so obsessed with the future that you forget about the current.
Or how’s this one…
- Simply a lack of communication and having different goals.
I know what you're thinking…. “But Dan, I'm so charismatic, confident and successful. What does it matter if my relationship goes down the tube? I could just get another one!”
Ok, Rockstar… Let me tell you from a business owner who very nearly lost it all:
THERE IS NO AMOUNT OF PROFESSIONAL SUCCESS THAT CAN COMPENSATE FOR FAILURES WITHIN THE FAMILY!
Don’t make the same mistake I did and try and convince yourself otherwise. I thought once I "made it" I could simply buy back my relationship with gifts, homes and holidays.
I was wrong!
Let me tell you a story:
It was the 12 months between 2017 and 2018 when I hit a peak in business.
I was FLYING financially!
I finally felt like it was all worth it when all of a sudden my partner dropped this bomb on me...
“I feel like a single Mum”
It didn't stop there; she also asked if we’d be together if it wasn't for the kids. We’d lost our friendship, our physical relationship was nothing but a memory, and the only evidence of us being together was our Facebook status.
Hard hitting right?
That was my defining moment. The moment when I realised that I had hit a point in my career where other people wanted to be me but the people I loved didn't want to be with me.
Sound familiar?
Well, I refused to let myself become another statistic.
What about you?
Entrepreneurship is who I am so I knew I couldn't give it up. If I did I would have developed a hate for my partner for making me choose. So I didn’t choose, instead I decided to figure out how to have BOTH.
I wanted to find out why such high level, competitive, creative and determined individuals couldn't seem to get their S#@T together to succeed at the most important place of all… HOME.
So, I spent $187,480 of my own money and two years figuring out how to shift the data and develop the strategies to help myself succeed beyond the boardroom and bring the love back into the bedroom 😉
Here’s what I found to be true for me and other entrepreneurs:
- Not all businesses or industries are structured in a way that allows for ‘both’ business and relationship success
- Most entrepreneurs have directly engaged in time for money activities and don't know how to leverage themselves out of their business
- 6-7 figure business owners often had values and visions for business but not life.
- Huge lack of systems including staff management protocols to ensure consistent income continues without YOU!
- Disconnection between what they “said” mattered and where their time was spent
- Inability to say ‘no’ which cost them saying ‘yes’ to time with their partners
- Reactively try to revive their relationships after neglecting them for months
- Investment into self development was solely focused on growing their business at any cost
- Believed that what makes you win as an entrepreneur automatically made you win as a partner
- Thinking they had a successful relationship but evidently they just had the wrong partner
When I uncovered the above it became so obvious to me why business owners lead the stats in DIVORCE GLOBALLY!
It became very clear that I was going to end up the next middle aged entrepreneur going through an expensive separation and the only negotiations I’d be focused on would be about how often I’d be seeing my kids!
No Chance! I Changed!
Here's How:
- I developed a lifestyle design tool that factored in time and money.
- I uncovered what types of businesses and industries lended themselves to a leveraged position and how to restructure companies that don’t.
- I built software and calculators to determine how my time was spent and what decisions I made.
- I completely restructured company training and management protocols for efficiency and increased levels of engagement and achievement.
- I shifted my mindset and uncovered all the myths that were holding me back from believing I could have both.
- I found quick and easy ways to boost cashflow without huge upfront cost of product development.
- I created an identity for the family which included values, visions and a mission statement.
- I created systematic rules and templates around how I planned weeks, months and years which completely changed my relationship.
In fact if you fast forward to today…
We’ve got 3 kids and my partner also runs her own successful company.
More importantly - we’re happy as individuals, partners, parents and business owners. That is what we call 'The Core 4; of I, We, Us and It.
Once we sorted out our own lives a trickle of people started to notice and ask for help… then a steady stream and eventually we felt like we were being inundated with requests from complete strangers on how we were juggling growing businesses with a growing family.
Mindful of how we managed our own time I decided the best way for us to help people was to take the work I was doing as a consultant and combine it with all our personal in home tools and turn it into an online community.
That way we could continue to help people without needing to restrict access based on time limitations and availability.
Best of all we could continue to live our own leveraged lives (something I will teach you how to do...) and keep access to our information affordable because the truth is the more I consulted the more I needed to charge to justify the clocks attachment to the income.
After 10 years in business for myself and coaching others I know it takes 5 things to succeed:
EXAMPLES
COMMUNITY
EDUCATION
INSPIRATION
ACCOUNTABILITY
So I designed the 'You Can Have Both' school with those 5 things in mind. But that doesn’t mean I open the doors for anyone...
My mission is to help business owners scale their businesses and build their dream lifestyle without it costing them their relationships but I know to change the stats I can only do 50% of the work, the other 50% will be you consuming the information, making the changes and ultimately taking action.
But lets be clear that doesn't mean our school is right for everyone!
That’s why this program is only for these types of people:
1) You're a finisher - if you tend to dabble and lose interest quickly then I don't want to waste yours or my time, chances are you won't extract the value of this program anyway.
2) You own a business and either have or are hoping to have a family in the future.
3) You’re open minded and believe for this to change you must be willing to change
4) You understand that if you want more from life you'll have to become more first, which means you truly understand that investing in yourselfis an investment in your future.
If you aren't one of these people and you were hoping for a quick fix then unfortunately this community is not for you.
However, if you found yourself nodding along as you read the above then I'm excited to invite you to join the most specific and cost effective program you'll find for building your business without it costing you your life!
I'd love you to join my community of like-minded entrepreneurs by enrolling in my school. We're all on the journey to having 'both'. My online teachings will bring you the clarity, education and tools to make living the life you want possible!
I'M INVITING YOU TO THE:
'You Can Have Both' Community!
A Look Inside...
Plus a peak at one of the most popular lessons in the school 'My Rules For Entrepreneurship'
- Why Business Anyway? (63:16)
- The Stat Attack (40:11)
- Owner or Operator? (7:21)
- The Scale Up Cycle (12:04)
- The Only Business Plan You Need (3:54)
- The Business Filter (5:31)
- My Journey to H.I.P.P.O (11:45)
- Systemise (6:24)
- The 5 D’s For Exponential Growth In Your Team (8:35)
- Get Your People to R.O.A.R (5:41)
- Who, Not How (9:04)
- The Buffer Zone- BONUS (7:55)
- Introduction & The Heart of The Core 4 (3:47)
- Creating the 'Perfect Day' for I, We, Us and Kids (9:34)
- Moments by Design and Moments that Define (4:59)
- The 3 D's for Rhythm in Your Relationship (8:01)
- Our Secret 'Birdseye Balance Planner' (14:24)
- My Interview With Megs - A Must Watch for Mums (51:37)
- 8 Tangible Tips for The 'Busy' Entrepreneur (52:14)
- DOWNLOAD ME! Module Workbook
- Introduction & What is The House of The Core 4? (10:05)
- Laying The Foundation With A Value System (18:16)
- Building Your Roof With A Compelling Vision (20:24)
- 7 Steps To Creating & Achieving Your Vision (53:59)
- Choosing The Vehicle To Take You There (32:44)
- Maintaining Your House (5:24)
- How to Proactively Protect The Relationships Inside The Home (64:49)
- Final Thoughts (4:25)
- Introduction to Money Month (7:56)
- Money Mindset (101:18)
- Introduction To Making Money (3:26)
- Family Treasure Hunt (17:10)
- How To: Get A Pay Rise (37:39)
- Moving Up The Income Ladder (14:45)
- The Power Of The Media (8:49)
- Teach OR Share! (9:38)
- Time For A Joint Venture (19:13)
- Affiliate Marketing (9:25)
- What's Next? (0:59)
- The Four L's Of Money Management (6:44)
- Managing Your Living Expenses (14:48)
- Managing Your Short and Long Term Security (12:55)
- Managing Your Savings (6:42)
- Managing Your Legacy with The W.E.A.L.T.H Box
- Multiplying Your Money (54:41)
Here's What It Looks Like:
- 20 hours of 'You Can Have Both' Video Content covering topics like: The Business Structures to Set You Free, Mindset for Having Both, Making, Managing and Multiplying Money, Creating Family Values That Stick, Leaving a Legacy Behind, Creating Business Structures and Procedures PLUS MORE ($4,990 Value)
-Original #YCHB Software, Tools & Resources to compliment each module ($399 Value)
-6 highly sought after workbooks such as: 'The 28 Day Time Audit', 'My Perfect Day Planner: I, We, Us' BONUS Kids Planner, 'The House of The Core 4', 'Money Mindset', 'The W.E.A.L.T.H Box' AND 'The Ultimate Procedure Manual' ($2,999 Value)
-Supportive 'Members Only' Facebook Group ($490 Value)
-Early Bird Access to ALL NEW Dan Cross Coaching Programs, Products & Events (Up To 40% OFF)
VALUED AT OVER $8,000.00 AU
CURRENTLY AVAILABLE FOR $1,470 AUD
Let me give it to you RAPID FIRE...
Who’s it for?
Business owners who feel that they need to choose between personal goals and family ones.
What exactly is it?
User friendly video lessons with downloadable tools, templates and work books.
How long is the course?
The course can go for as long or as little time as you like. I recommend to my students that they pace it over 12 weeks but you can watch as much or as little as you like at a time.
What if I get busy and can’t watch the monthly module?
I get it! As long as you’re a student you will always have access to the lessons and can watch in your own time.
What do I need for the course?
A phone, laptop or computer with internet is all you need.
How much is it?
You will be charged $1,470 AUD billed once for lifetime enrolment of You Can Have Both.
What if I don’t like it?
Let me know and I will gladly give you your money back ;) Truth is I’m confident you will and I’ve been charging my services out for $500 hr to deliver this content face to face. You're getting a bargain and it comes with a money back guarantee, what not to like?
You'll Walk Away With...
- The missing link in your mindset for having both
- The business structure that sets you free
- Efficiency hacks that will give you more by doing less
- Strategies for planning 'The Core 4'
- Communication techniques for a working relationship
- Defined family values and vision
- Learning the entrepreneurial strengths that are killing your relationship
- The rules that govern success regardless of circumstances
- Forecasting tools to help you navigate and avoid poor decisions
- Wealth principles to shift your lifestyle
- Tools that dramatically benefit your productivity
- Strategies to teach your kids about money and entrepreneurship
- New revenue streams to your business
- The tools that help you say 'yes' in the situations that matter
FAQs
How much time do I need to allocate to this course to get the most out of it?
Modules range from 1-3 hours , don't forget, this course is designed with parents in mind. Each Module is broken into bite sized lessons so you're able to watch on-demand when it suits you. You can be assured that the Foundation Content will never be removed, so you are able to rewatch or revisit at anytime.
I own a business but haven't got children yet, will this program still benefit me?
Yes, of course! The purpose of this program is to give you the tools and strategies to be successful in all areas of your life, in fact, it would be advantageous to take this program before starting your family, so you're better equipped for managing the challenges of having both.
I'm already enrolled in another course, should I complete that before starting this one?
Most of our students are enrolled in more than one program and we have found that this often leads to magnifying the results of each course. Remember that self development should be a part of your regular routine and not a one off event that you hope to change your life.
I don’t own a business yet but I’m interested in self development and I like the idea of working for myself one day, is this still relevant for me?
Absolutely! The content delivered each month falls into a multitude of categories and specific business content is only one of many. 'The You Can Have Both’ material is about providing a broad base of knowledge for people to win in all the areas of life, so you will still find this material extremely helpful.
Not Sure If NOW Is The Right Time?
If you’re asking that question then you know what the answer is: YES IT IS!
I get it, you’re a little nervous but maybe look at it a different way...
What's the worst thing that could happen if you do join?
What's the worst thing that could happen if you don’t?
I bet the second questions answers a lot more 'worsts' than the first one...
Truth is I don’t want to get all salesy on you and pretend that I’m going to take the course down in a week and you might “miss out” or that the program might “sell out” magically over night. I don’t need to do that because you have something much greater to lose if you don’t do something to avoid becoming another business owner who’s quest for external gain came at the price of the internal ones.
I can teach you how to have both. Let me show you how, your relationship needs you to say YES!